26. Why “I Know” Is Holding You Back In Your Relationships & Personal Growth (Copy)
Have you ever caught yourself saying “I know” before really letting something land?
In this episode, we unpack the ways the phrase “I know” can block us from real learning, growth, and deeper connection. We explore how staying open—even when we think we’ve heard it all before—can lead to surprising insights and emotional growth. Through personal stories and playful back-and-forth, we highlight the difference between knowing something intellectually and actually living it. If you've ever caught yourself saying “yeah, yeah, I know,” this one’s for you.
What You’ll Learn:
How to replace reactive habits with presence and real listening
The language and awareness to move from judgment to compassion—toward yourself and others
Ways to respond (instead of react) when someone triggers you
If you’re someone who ….
Feels stuck in your personal growth journey, or
Acknowledges your stubbornness and wants to overcome it,or
Values deep and honest self-reflection
…then you’ll want to be sure to listen in on this episode. Enjoy!
Chapters:
00:00 : The Problem with “I Know”
00:58 : Why Knowing Stops Curiosity
04:23 : Intellectual vs. Embodied Understanding
06:05 : The Mind’s Need to Win and Protect
08:55 : The Ego, Ranking, and Separation
10:17 : A Story of Betrayal Between Friends
14:48 : The Trap of Staying in Judgment
17:46 : Feeling vs. Feeding the Emotion
20:06 : When Pain Reveals Patterns
21:28 : The Power of Turning Inward
Links :
Learn more about Mitra’s self-coaching program: https://mitramanesh.com/
Social Media:
@mitramanesh_ (https://instagram.com/mitramanesh_)
@bendadbin (https://instagram.com/bendadbin)
@theinnerview.live (https://bit.ly/4f61J0Q)
Keywords :
Ben Dadbin, Mitra Manesh